Keeping Track of Your Stress Level

I know that youve seen them: the magazines are full of questionnaires that claim to measure your stress level. Some of them are useful because they make you think about your stress, but most of them seem sort of silly. First of all, they dont tell you how much youre stressed, and they dont give you any clue what to do about it.

But heres a different approach: Ive shown below a very short stress test that you can take in three minutes or less. Take the test right now and write your scores down somewhere - call it a stress journal. For each of the statements below, score it from 1 to 5 depending on how much it describes you right at this moment. A score of 1 means I dont feel this way at all. and a score of 5 means This is just the way I feel. In this test, high scores are good and indicate a generally low stress level.

• I feel healthy.
• I feel well rested.
• I usually get my work done on time.
• I feel in control of my life.
• I have a set of good friends who support me.

Then take the test again next week, and the week after and the week after that; make it part of your daily routine to check in on your own stress level. After a while your stress journal might look something like this:

Date    Health    Rest    Work   Control   Friends    Total
 12/01   3         3       2      4         5          17
 12/07   4         2       1      4         4          15
 12/14   3         1       1      4         5          14
 12/21   4         1       1      3         4          13

As you look at this journal, what do you notice? Well, the first thing is that your overall stress is getting worse (remember that high scores are good). Over the month your stress level has been steadily rising. What else do you see? It looks like your health, decisions, and friends scores are pretty constant, although health and friends waver a little. But the real problem comes from your rest and your workload: they werent great to begin with, but have been getting worse until theyve hit the lowest possible level. So, if you wanted to improve your overall stress level, where would you start? Right, youd look into why you are feeling so tired and why work is overloading you. It seems a reasonable guess that youre feeling tired because you cant get all your work done and its eating into the rest of your life, so start asking some questions: What part of the work has expanded? Is it a temporary situation that will go away on its own? What can you do to lighten your load?

Now you have to get out and make some changes to get the scores back up again. If youre overloaded at work, maybe you can delegate some of the work to someone else, or maybe you can negotiate an extension on a deadline. Just taking control of the situation and making a few changes is likely to send those numbers up and your stress down. Youll have to look at your own circumstances to make a plan, but here are some suggestions:

Health: If youre not feeling healthy, try the obvious: if you havent seen a doctor in a while, go get a real physical checkup: infections and chronic disease contribute to stress. Start getting enough exercise to tire you out at least twice a week. (Youll have to decide how much this is.) Review your eating habits: do you get at least one relaxed, nutritious meal a day, or do you eat every meal on the run or at your desk?

Rest: If you have to drag yourself out of bed, find yourself falling asleep during the day, and collapse onto the sofa when you get home, start by reviewing your sleep habits. Are you sleeping on a regular schedule? Do you get enough sleep for your own needs? (Some people need more than eight hours.) Exercising until youre tired, getting on a regular schedule, and avoiding caffeine and alcohol will help you fall asleep and stay asleep.

Work: If you find yourself regularly working late at the office or bringing work home for the evening or the weekend, dont think that you can fix things with a little more overtime, because that will just make the problem worse. If theres really more work than you can handle you have to find a way to reduce your work load. I know that this is hard to do, but try to learn to say no to assignments at work, and avoid taking on jobs just because theyve got to get done and theres no one else to do them.

Control: Its terrible when you feel like someone else is running your life; thats enough to increase your stress all by itself. If youre feeling driven, rather than being behind the wheel, try to narrow down where the feeling comes from. Have you taken on more extracurricular activities than you can reasonably handle? Are you overcommitted at work? Are debts and money issues driving your decisions? And above all, what can you do to get back in control? Reclaiming your life might mean cutting back on your commitments and regaining some time for yourself. If youre having financial difficulties, just one visit to a financial counselor can help a lot. But most of all, doing something to get back in control will help raise this number.

Friends: There are a ton of studies showing that having a social support network lowers your stress and makes you more resilient and resistent to stress. A social support network is just academic talk for a circle of friends and acquaintances who will listen to you vent and help you think about strategies for getting things back under control. They dont have to be best friends: workout buddies, job colleagues, and sewing circle friends all make good network members. So if you find yourself scoring low on the friends scale, try opening up your social life and making more contacts and acquaintances.

So there you have it: a real program to get your stress under control. This program works for three reasons. First, youre going to look at your stress over a long period of time rather than looking at a brief snapshot of it. Second, it helps you figure out where the stress is coming from, so you know what to work on. And finally it helps you see your progress, so you can see when things are getting better.

Bruce Taylor is the owner and principal of Unison Coaching, and helps people improve their current jobs and create the careers they have always dreamed of. He provides executive coaching for senior managers who are creating superior organizations, management coaching for leaders who are adapting to new practices, and individual coaching for workers who are upgrading their skills. Bruce has a Masters degree in Community Psychology, and a Certificate in Job Stress and Healthy Workplace Design, both from the University of Massachusetts. He can be reached at bruce_taylor@unisoncoaching.com or at http://unisoncoaching.com. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Bruce_Taylor

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What is stress?

Stress (roughly the opposite of relaxation) is a medical term for a wide range of strong external stimuli, both physiological and psychological, which can cause a physiological response called the general adaptation syndrome, first described in 1936 by Hans Selye in the journal Nature.
An emotionally disruptive or upsetting condition occurring in response to adverse external influences and capable of affecting physical health which can be characterized by increased heart rate, a rise in blood pressure, muscular tension, irritability and depression. Stress does not cause migraine but can be a migraine "trigger".
A condition in which the organism is subjected to unfavourable or unfamiliar environmental conditions, resulting in some alteration in normal physical functioning. Short-term stress can often be overcome. Long-term stress can reduce resistance to disease and parasites, inhibit self-healing processes, and reduce life-span.